The effect of premarital Sex can be detrimental. Countless students are
crying out because they are hurt, disillusioned, and despairing after
premarital sex.
Look into the pain-filled hearts of several young people who have
intimately shared with us the emotional pain they have suffered after deciding
not to wait for sex until marriage.
v Premarital
sex gave me fear as a gift… and shame to wear as a garment. It stole my peace
of mind and robbed me of hope in a bright future. Sex smashed my concentration
in class to smithereens. My desire for church activities was ground to a pulp.
It made crumbs of the trust I had known in Christ… and in men and women. Sex
gave me jagged tear in my heart that even now, seven years, is still healing.
v Can
you help me? I’m thirteen and I’ve just ruined my life. I thought Mike really
loved me, but last night we had sex for the first time and this morning he told
my girlfriend that he didn’t want to see me anymore. I thought giving Mike what
he wanted would make him happy and he’d love me more. What if I’ pregnant? What
am I going to do? I feel so alone and confused… I can’t talk to my parents, so
could you please write me back and help me. I don’t know how I can go on.
v Having
premarital sex was the most horrifying experience of my life. It wasn’t at all
the emotionally satisfying or the casually taken experience the world perceives
it to be, I felt as if my insides were being exposed and my heart left
unattended.