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The effect of premarital Sex can be detrimental (Part 2)

The RELATIONAL, SPIRITUAL, PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL pain countless young people  have suffered after deciding not to wait for sex until marriage are really very devastating, you can't avoid to join the list. 

v  Having premarital sex was the mo st horrifying experience of my life. It wasn’t at all the emotionally satisfying or the casually taken experience the world perceives it to be, I felt as if my insides were being exposed and my heart left unattended.

v  It’s not a pretty picture. It’s not a TV soap opera either; the reality of pregnancy out Side of marriage is scary and lonely. To have premarital sex was my choice one hot June night, forcing many decisions I thought I would never have to make. Those decisions radically changed my life.

v  It took losing mu virginity at a very young age, losing my self-respect and possibly my fertility, helping to ruin another person’s marriage and family life, acquiring a non-curable virus, not getting the fulfillment that should provide in marriage, and living with the guilty that Satan always tries to make me feel… for me to realize how detrimental sex before marriage can really be.

v  I love him. He said he loved me too. But after we did it, he called me all sorts of names and left me. The reason I am writing is, I don’t understand this we went together for months and I thought we had something special …I really need help I have this feeling that no one cares about me and no matter what I do I am not able to make any man happy. If it’s not too much trouble, could you write me back and tell me what to do? I’d appreciate it.